Don't Hire a VA (Do This Instead)

Don't Hire a VA (Do This Instead)

Jul 11, 2025

Look, I’m all for delegation. But traditional VAs are outdated, slow, and expensive. Smart founders and operators are replacing them with AI assistants that respond 24/7, cost nothing, and have infinite memory. Here’s how to build your own:


The Method


  1. Log into ChatGPT or your favorite LLM and type: "You are the world's best life coach, you are onboarding me as a client, ask me 100 yes or no questions to do a first assessment of my life and goals, they should be yes or no or short answer questions, ask me them in groups of 10."


  2. The LLM will ask you a series of questions to learn everything it can about you, try to dedicate half an hour to setting this up, it's worth it.


  3. After your assistant is set-up and running, start asking it for to-do lists, events, advice, or anything else you may need! You'll be amazed how much time you save.


How I Use This


I use my AI assistant every single day. I've had one for a few months now, and after talking to it almost every day, it knows virtually all important information about me. Every morning when I wake up, the first thing I do is reach for my phone, open ChatGPT, and type "What do I need to get done today, ask me any questions needed". After I answer the two or three questions it asks, it will provide a detailed to do list, schedule, and any other information that's relevant for that day.


Creating an AI assistant has been one of the best and most time-saving things decisions I've made. I hope you all create your own and start saving time and money.